Research undertaken at Oxford University suggests that an increasing number
of people are spying on their partners online.
One in five couples admitted to reading a partner's emails or text messages,
and 13 per cent examined their partner's internet browsing history. More than
2,400 individuals were questioned in the research.
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Six per cent of the couples had met online, of which over a third had met at
an internet dating site and 19 per cent in a chat room.
Online daters choose more diverse partners, according to the research, as 36
per cent of the 'online' couples had different levels of education compared with
21 per cent of 'offline' couples.
Bill Dutton, director of the
Oxford
Internet Institute, said: "This study is a dramatic illustration of the
potential for the internet to reconfigure social relationships."
The survey also found strong evidence to suggest that couples believe
'online' relationships to be just as important as 'offline' ones.
This is a dramatic illustration of the potential for the internet to reconfigure social relationships
Bill Dutton Oxford Internet Institute
Around 85 per cent of respondents disapproved of a partner 'flirting' online
with someone else.
This rises to 89 per cent for 'communicating relationship troubles to
others', 94 per cent for 'having cyber-sex' and 97 per cent for 'falling in
love', raising interesting questions about the three per cent who are fine with
this.
One of the biggest areas of disagreement is on the viewing of pornography
online. Some 46 per cent of couples disagreed on its acceptability, but men are
apparently much more tolerant than women of this activity.
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